Can you take a break for afternoon tea?

Mondays are a fresh start to a new week. If life has been going smoothly with your children loving to learn and you are able to take a short break for an afternoon tea, keep up the good work!

Now, if the picture of your day includes more tantrums and whining than learning, maybe it is time to take a deep breath and reevaluate your plan. Rest assured, there will be a transition time as this year's routines are established, but if you know the adjustment time has passed and things are still very challenging, here are a few questions to ask yourself:

1. Are your expectations realistic?

If you have a 4-year old that won't sit still while you are trying to do hour lessons full of lecture-type teaching.....you might need to reevaluate. Studies have shown that children have the attention span in minutes their age plus one minute. Although this isn't a hard rule, we have found it to be pretty accurate!

2. Does your teaching style match the learning needs of your children?

"If you’ve told a child a thousand times, and the child still has not learned, then it is not the child who is the slow learner." This quote can seem a bit harsh but really think about the meaning. What can you do to refresh how you approach teaching your children in a way that helps them feel the spark of excitement as they explore new topics?

3. Are you trying to be an IG or Pinterest homeschool mom?

Don't get us wrong, we love a good IG feed and Pinterest is a wonderful resource, but trying to live up to the "perfect" homeschool pictures with a school space Joanna worthy, a clean house 24-7, always obedient children that love to read and will be working with NASA at age 10….just isn't reality. Homeschooling is different for each family. Experience tells us that you will find your kids learning in all sorts of unique places (usually not the space you so painstakingly set up). Upside down reading on the couch? Yep! Making a mess on your kitchen table day after day with supplies, books, and snack wrappers? Yes to that too! And guess what, that is ok! When life is messy it usually means your kids are thriving. Here’s a quick tip, if you can't stand the chaos on your table, call a five-minute break, turn the music on and for one song, clean as fast as everyone can just to keep the avalanche at bay. You will all learn teamwork and you will be amazed just how much you can get done in those few short minutes a couple of times a day. Most of all, answer all of their questions, smile, pray, and enjoy this fleeting time. You’ve got this!

Am I Qualified to Teach My Children?

You have been your child’s teacher since the day they were born. The foundations for language, math, writing, social relationships, love, and most importantly your moral code, among thousands of other skills, have been established by you. Although parents have proven that they are fully capable of teaching their children for some reason we get nervous as our children age that we won’t be able to measure up. As our confidence wanes, we feel the only option is to let our children go to public school for a “proper” education. For some families, that is the best choice and that is ok but that isn’t the only choice (or right choice) for every child or family.

Any homeschool parent will tell you that they are not a rocket scientist, a math whiz, or a prolific Newbury award-winning author (well unless they really are). The beauty and exciting thing about being a homeschool parent is that you get to learn or relearn so many amazing things right alongside your child! Thankfully, if you do have a child that surpasses you in a subject, there are so many resources, like our Academy, that you can participate in to take the pressure off yourself.

So now that you KNOW you are qualified, how do you abide by the HBI* laws of Washington to become qualified to be able to legally homeschool? Rest as ease, they are all pretty easy and you might even already have one of the qualifications met! You only need to qualify in ONE of the four ways. The different options that Washington State has established to fulfill this portion of the law are:

  • Either parent has earned 45 quarter units of college-level credits

  • Attend a Parent Qualifying Course

  • Work with a certificated teacher who meets with your student on the average of an hour a week

  • Be deemed sufficiently qualified to provide home-based instruction by the superintendent of your local school district

There are some questions that usually come up with the qualifications so let’s do a little FAQ here. If we don’t answer something that you have a question about, please leave a comment and we will do our best to quickly reply!

QUALIFICATION FAQ

Q: Does the parent with the college-level credits have to be the primary teacher?

A: No, either parent can be the primary teacher as long as one of the parents has 45 quarter units of credit. This is equivalent to about half of a AA degree.

Q: Where can I attend a qualifying parent course?

A: The WHO offers parent qualifying courses along with a list of other classes offered throughout Washington.

Q: Is there a test that parents must take after the qualifying course?

A: No, there is not usually a test for parents with the exception of the online course offered. There are a few easy questions at the end of the online class just to make sure you watched. :)

Q: Do I have to take the parent qualifying course each year?

A: No, once you have the certification, it is good for life.

Q: How do I contact a teacher to supervise my children’s learning plan?

A: Any teacher working in the field of education can be your point of contact each week. The teacher must spend at least one hour a week with your child. All students that are enrolled and regularly attend classes at Cedar Hil Academy meet this qualification.

Q: Who do I turn my parent qualifications into?

A: No one, with one exception! You just need to make sure one of the 4 methods is completed. If you do choose to use a certified teacher as your qualifying method, there is one box on the WHO’s DOI form that you turn into your local school district that you need to check. This does go to OSPI so technically they will be informed of your choice but you don’t have to turn in any extra paperwork, just check the box.

Q: Does the teacher have to dictate what I teach?

A: Absolutely not! The teacher must meet with your student for at least an hour each week to qualify but they do not have to provide the materials you teach.

Q: How do I get the superintendent to deem me qualified?

A: In our experience, this is the least common method for parent qualification. We suggest to make an appointment with the superintendent of your local school district and ask how he/she completes the process. If could be different for each district.

Remember, you only need to qualify using ONE of these methods. Although it can seem daunting at first, we are here to support you because together is always better. Do you have any specific questions about parent qualifications for homeschooling in Washington?



HBI = Home-based instruction

DOI=Declaration of Intent (to homeschool)

OSPI=Office of Superintendent of Public Instruction







So You’ve Decided to Homeschool....Now What?

Imagine yourself sitting at your kitchen table, sipping on your caffeinated beverage of choice, looking forward to the day because you felt at ease with the decisions you have made regarding your children’s education. This scene might feel like an impossibility but take a deep breath because we are here to walk you through the process of legally homeschooling in Washington State.

Before we begin with the legalese, let’s take a moment to remember life changes that are meaningful can feel a bit challenging at the beginning because it is new but it is always worth the extra effort. A new exercise program, clean eating, even marriage is work but the benefits always outweigh any obstacles you might face. Ok, are you ready to get your ducks in a row so you can sigh a bit of relief and really focus on making your daily homeschool journey a success?

First and foremost, Why do we even have to report to the state about our educational choices? It is actually very simple, the compulsory education law states that all children ages 8-18 must attend school with some exceptions. Thankfully, homeschooling is one of those exceptions but the state wants to account for each child to make sure the laws are being upheld. Along with our green landscape, majestic mountains and interesting coastlines our nonevasive homeschool laws are another blessing about living in Washington. Compared to other areas in the US and the world, our laws are very reasonable and easy to follow. Generations before us fought valiantly to secure our right to choose to homeschool our children so if everyone tries to abide by the laws set before us, it benefits not only our generation, but the generations to come.

Let’s get to the details! Below are the first steps you need to take based on the age of your children and their previous educational experience:

-If your child is less than 8 years old and has never been formally enrolled in school, you are considered educationally free and you can and should file nothing with the local school district.

-If your child is less than 8 years old and has attended public school, you will need to communicate in writing your wish to formally withdrawal to the principal of your child’s school. Do not turn in a Declaration of Intent to the school district until your child’s 8th birthday. Don’t overthink this, simply say, Dear (principal), I wish to withdraw (students names) from (school) starting (date you wish to withdraw). Sincerely, (your name)

-For children 8-18 that have never entered the public school system, you will need to turn in a Declaration of Intent to Homeschool each school year by September 15th.

-If your child 8-18 years old and is currently enrolled in a public school program, you will need to send a formal withdraw letter to your principal AND submit a DOI to your local school district. For an iron clad paper trail, send your DOI registered mail with a return receipt. File the receipt away when you get it back with your other homeschool paperwork. You can also go to the district to turn in your form and ask for a photocopy of the signed form or date stamp that you turned it in. Most districts will also send a follow up email confirming the DOI has been processed. Always keep a copy of your DOI on file.

It is always best practice to use the Washington Homeschool Organization DOI form as it releases only the information dictated necessary by law to your local district. The WHO is a wonderful resource for the homeschoolers of Washington State.

We love checklists here at Cedar Hill Academy so we created a quick and easy one for you to use to make sure you have all of your t’s crossed and your i’s dotted! Please do not hesitate to reach out for clarification or ask any questions you might have. You’ve got this!

In this post we talked in detail about two of the five points on our checklist. Coming up next is all about the parent qualification options so stay tuned! If you want to make sure to stay up to date and get the upcoming articles delivered to your inbox, sign up below. Happy learning!

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5 Easy Lunches for Busy Families

Everyone knows that today is National Pi Day because who doesn’t want a good excuse to eat pie but did you know that it is also National Potato Chip Day? Yep, that is a thing! If your house is anything like ours, chips are the main staple, albeit not a healthy one! We do try to stick with the brands and flavors that have ingredients that are easily pronounced.

As a homeschool mom, one of the most challenging times each day is lunchtime. Everyone is ready for a break including you but everyone also needs food! Leftovers and peanut butter and jelly sandwiches are the go-to meals in most homeschooling families, but sometimes everyone is craving a change. Change doesn’t have to be hard! Planning is sometimes the roadblock so we have created 5 days worth of easy or prep ahead lunches. You can right-click the image and save it and we have also linked recipes and made you a grocery list. Enjoy and let us know which your favorite new lunch item is!

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Weekly prep::

  • Make a pound of bacon, divide into two different portions

  • Make one dessert to divide for the week (see TREATS above)

  • Wash grapes

  • Freeze grapes and M&M’s if using

Monday: Turkey Ranch Tortilla Roll-ups, carrot and red pepper stripes and apple slices

Use large flour or GF tortillas and layer ranch, turkey, cheese (any kind you have will do), bacon and avocado and roll. You can cut them in half, in rounds or leave them whole. Slice red peppers (They are also a great addition in the wrap too) and carrots. If you want, buying baby carrots will speed up the process. Slice apples.

Tuesday: Crockpot Baked Potatoes and frozen grapes

Follow instructions in the link for baked potatoes. At lunchtime add sour cream, bacon crumbles, butter, cheese and salt and pepper. to potatoes. Serve with frozen grapes (these will become a summertime favorite)

Wednesday: Croissant with Chicken Salad, orange slices and chips

To make the chicken salad I use either leftover rotisserie chicken or canned chicken from Costco. You need about 4 cups. I add in 1 cup each of celery and red grape halves, 1/2 cup pecans or cashews and diced red onion. To taste add salt, pepper and a pinch of onion and garlic powder. Pile some on a pre-made croissant and enjoy!

Thursday: Frito Pies, blueberries and strawberries

Layer Fritos in a bowl and top with heated chili and cheese. If you want to get fancy you can add sour cream and chopped green onions.

Friday: Ham and Cheese Refrigerated Crescent Rolls, yogurt with banana slices and snap peas

*Desserts: Ree’s Strawberry Jam Bars (These are easy and oh so yummy), Three Ingredient PB Cookies, and/or M & M Rice Krispie Treats (Use the traditional recipe and add frozen bag of M&M’s, we like mini M&M’s the best)


Grocery list or items needed:

flour or GF tortillas

croissants (Costco’s are yummy but any prepared will do)

refrigerated crescent rolls

Fritos

potato chips

cans of chili

turkey and ham lunch meat

bacon

chicken (see suggestions above)

pecans or cashews

sour cream

butter

cheese

ranch

yogurt

red pepper

carrots

celery

snap peas

red onions

potatoes

avocado

apples

banana

blueberries

strawberries

oranges

red grapes

*add dessert ingredients



Establishing 2020 Goals

In our last blog post we were talking all about the stages of homeschooling and how to meet your homeschool goals.  If you have never written out goals with your  children, it is always a great way to start the new year!  2020 not only brings a new year but a new decade. Sit and think for just a moment how much life will change in 10 years. Will your children still be at home or off to college? They might even be married with children by then! Now is the time to make a fresh start and build your hope for the future.  The only limitations are your own thoughts and breaking those barriers might just be the key to having the best year yet with your children! 

We have a beautiful older woman in our church congregation that is full of wisdom that she has gained over the years.  She has taught many women in her time and one thing that she always emphasizes is how to set goals based on the scripture in Luke 2:52.  That verse says,

"And Jesus grew in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and man." 

 

Although God’s Word is complete, she did add one thing to her goal list that isn't listed in this specific verse, financial. We feel like that is fitting because the bible does talk alot about our financial lives as well.  (Dave Ramsey is the expert here!)

If this method of living was good enough for Jesus, it is definitely good enough for us!  Keeping Jesus in our mind as we set goals for the new year gives us a sense of purpose and power to accomplish great things with the days He has given us!  We want to give you a head start to easily create goals with your children based on this verse so please feel free to download this pdf and print one for each of your children.

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As you can see, this goal setting outline doesn’t just want you to blindly write your goal and then file it away to never be thought of again. Take the goal and break it down into actionable steps. This helps fit the overwhelm and gives your children the confidence that they need to actually accomplish their dreams! Don’t forget to add their reason why. On the days that we don’t want to work on our goals, because lets face it, it isn’t always fun to grow when we are smack dab in the process, they will keep working at it because they can look up and think to themselves, “Oh yeah, that is WHY I want to accomplish this goal.” Now, let’s get going and make this year spectacular!

Our next post will be all about making goal setting fun….stay tuned for that! If you don’t want to miss out on any blog posts, Cedar Hill news or upcoming events, click here to join our email list.

Homeschool Goals and Routines

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As we start to settle in for the winter, it is a good time to take a few quiet moments to sit down and really look at our homeschool routines, ideas, and accomplishments for the first part of this school year. It is always best to focus on the positives but as you look back, we also need to take the time to review the things that might not be working the way you had planned. 

Now, before we get much deeper, know that there are going to be periods, hopefully just a day or two but they can last longer, where your child (or yourself) are disgruntled or overwhelmed about learning in general.  Take these times to either push them beyond their comfort zone to growth in a fun way or let them just sit on cruise control for a short time to help them rejuvenate.  We all need brain breaks every once in a while! 

One word of caution , there is so much chatter about the “kind” of homeschooler we identify with.  Are you involved in CC (Classical Conversations), unchoolers, part of the wild and free movement, school at home, ect.?  As you sit back at ponder (hopefully with a steaming cup of coffee or tea),  all that really matters is if you and your children love the way YOUR family is choosing to learn.  Are you satisfied with their growth?  Are you encouraged by the way they are excited to learn?  If the answer to these questions is a resounding yes, keep up the good work mama! If not, then it might be time to take a look at how you are choosing to go about your days. 

Traditionally, homeschooling goes through stages along with your children's development.  In the early years we get to play with lots of paint, sounds, construction paper, glue, and glitter.  The laminator is your best friend during this period but the pieces of cut laminate sheets are more like your worst enemy. Then you transition into the upper elementary age to middle school.  Your kids still want to paint and do art but the projects get more involved and the mess is a little more manageable because hopefully, they are learning to clean up after themselves just a bit.  It is during this stage that you may start to question, as your child's primary educator, if you have what it takes to finish out the next stage.. high school. As you transition into high school age, you move into transcripts, testing, upper-level math, and lab sciences.  Some families will choose to completely stay their own course for all of the high school learning and might even decide to never take the SAT or pursue higher formal education in the form of college.  That is totally ok!  Trades are on a comeback and our children will be able to support themselves just as well, if not better, by learning a trade than if they become a degreed professional.  For those families that do decide that college is the best path for their child/ren, the reality is that they will need to know how to take notes, study for tests, handle the nerves of testing, write formal essays, do higher-level math and so on.

You can be prepared for both high school options at any age by asking yourself these questions:

Are the decisions I am making today helping or hindering our goals for our homeschool journey?

Are we growing closer as a family and to God through our homeschool journey?

Can I see growth, even incremental, in my children’s abilities mentally, spiritually and physically?

There are undoubtedly many more questions you can ask yourself but these will give you a good indicator as to what path you are currently on and if you need to just stay the course or look to alter your direction.


Just as you are looking at your family’s routines, priorities, strengths and weaknesses, we are also looking at ours at Cedar Hill Academy.  We feel like our true gift to our families is having learning options for upper elementary to high school students that engage, teach and encourage them to love learning. Yes, even what some feel are harder subjects like math and science.  Experiment days are definitely a favorite with the students and who knew a game of faction spoons could draw so many laughs! We are loving our Saplings class and feel like it is going beyond the classroom teaching skills and abilities that you can only get with a personalized education. During our first semester, the sapling students have built life-size teepees, a longhouse for the winter, fires (with of course s’mores), dioramas, scale models of the early Lewis and Clark forts, gone on nature hikes collect local plants, identifying and drying them and so much more.  The students are also loving the read alouds and outside free time that we take each learning period. Growing a family or a business are both works in progress, but if we keep our ultimate goal in mind, we know we will succeed together in both. 

Over the next few weeks, we want to give you tools to help set your homeschool goals that are based on scripture that really work! We have said it before and will say it again, progress over perfection conquers the homeschool day. We would love to hear from you. What are some struggles and some wins you have had this year?

Christmas Four Gift Challenge

A few years ago during the holiday season,  I sat wrapped up in my heated blanket sipping my coffee trying to decide what I was going buy for my family as gifts that year.  I couldn’t help but think of all of the excess that we have here in America.  Our children and grandchildren, in reality...all of us,  have so much that sometimes new items don’t even get played with and complacency in gratitude arises, even in wonderful families with really good kids.  As I looked online at gift ideas, I started seeing a new movement emerge that made me stop and ponder.  It was a simple guide for gift giving.

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This rule of four is intended for children but it is a great example to use for all of your loved ones that you want to spoil over the holiday season.  As you choose gifts, keep it straightforward and follow the simple guide:

-Something they want

-Something they need

-Something to read

-Something to wear

Over the next couple of weeks we will be helping you choose special gifts in a few of these categories!  We will be posting a tween/teen gift guide (with links and discounts, yeah!) and some of our top picks for great books on following Fridays. But for now, here is a printable wish list to use with your children as they think about all of the possibilities of gifts that could be waiting under the twinkling tree!  

Right click to save file to your computer and print. Hope you enjoy!

Right click to save file to your computer and print. Hope you enjoy!

Using Science to Teach Life Lessons

Wonder and science are all around us and can help us vividly demonstrate and teach so many life lessons.  Last Friday, we finished up our yearly vacation Bible school at our local church.  I usually try to do an object lesson each day demonstrating the thought that we are trying to teach the children to help them really “see” what they are learning.  Our theme this year was the Armor of God found in Ephesians 6:11-18.  Friday’s object lesson had the kids on the edge of their seats, anticipating what would happen next so I wanted to share it with you too!  I wish I would have thought to take more pictures but let's use our imagination for a minute, shall we? I used a regular orange and drew on the peel with a black sharpie and divided it into 6 sections.  (Think beach ball type stripes) In each section, I wrote one of the armor pieces talked about in the Bible.  On the table in front of the children, I placed a tall, clear glass cylinder of water.  I showed the kids that with the peel on, the orange was buoyant and easily floated.  I gently cut one of the sections of peel off that was labeled with a specific armor piece.  Do you think it still floated?  Yes, but just a tad bit lower into the vessel.  I progressed cutting each piece of "armor" away from the orange.  Each cut brought the orange a little lower under the surface of the water.  Finally, once all of the peel was removed, the orange sunk to the bottom!  The analogy was that if you keep your armor of God on, you will be able to be protected but without your protective armor, you are bound to sink. 

Scientifically, what makes the orange float with the peel on even though it is heavier?  Density is the key here!  Tiny air pockets are all throughout the orange peel making the orange seem weightless in the water.  As the peel is removed, so is the air which leads to the orange untimely sinking to the bottom of the container!  Science is a wonderful tool to teach many life lessons! 

What is your reason WHY?

As we scroll through FB or IG, we are usually seeing the highlight reels of peoples lives. We are seeing the smiling faces, the perfectly cleaned homes and wet, sloppy kisses of cute puppies and loving brothers and sisters. This isn’t always the reality of life though.

As moms, we have the days of self-doubt, “Should I really be homeschooling my kids, are they getting what they need?” “Am I smart enough to do this?” “Am I screwing them up for the rest of their life and they will need to live with me because they can’t get a job to support themselves?” (ok maybe the last one is just us…)

We want to put your mind at ease. Your children will learn and grow under your guidance and it will be fulfilling for you and them because you have chosen this lifestyle out of zeal and diligence. There is not a homeschool mom out there that is homeschooling for purely selfish reasons. We do it because we have a true passion to better our children’s lives, to spend more time with them and to give them a specialized education that we know will benefit them.

There is another side of the story that most people do not like to talk about. Those stories where mothers neglect their children, the children are subjected to scenes that are unimaginable but you know what? Some of those children rise through the ashes and become wonderful and productive adults too. We do not wish this path on anyone else but share this to show that not all the glory or blame will forever be set on your shoulders.

You are a good mama. Do you make mistakes? Yes, because you are human. Each day or even each moment, you try to put the right foot forward. You say, "I'm sorry." Ask for a do-over. Hug and kiss your children. You can have a read-in or just smile and say, "I love you." That is the true beginning of a good day and a life worth living together. What is your go-to way to help remind yourself of WHY you choose to homeschool?